I have BPD. Why do I destroy everyone I love?
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You can’t control how reactive you are to your intense feelings. You have maladaptive coping. You ca...
What was your best sex experience that still makes you horny?
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When I was studying degree in college, I had many sexy chics in my class. I am a thighs and ass love...
What are some things that children used to wait for, but are no longer common in today's society?
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I apologize in advance for the long answer but this one struck a nerve. Children used to eagerly wai...
Why are details for questions here on Quora so limited? I have an account here on Quora and Yahoo Answers. I like discussing different subjects.
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Why am I banned from Quora for having a different viewpoint?.. You don't have a different viewpoint,...
How do you cope when your mother doesn't love you?
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My father died when I was 9. My 4 sisters and I were left with a mother who didn’t care about any of...
Does the National Health Service (NHS) in the United Kingdom diagnose rare conditions? If so, does it provide treatment for them as well?
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I was diagnosed with anal cancer in 2020. It’s a rare cancer, with only around 1,000 diagnoses in th...
What is the best reply if your boyfriend asks you,"why do you love me?"
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“ Accha suno , why do you love me?” Her partner asked “I love you because you are the only person wh...
What makes Nigerian scammers skilled at impersonating people? Is their success a result of intelligence or other factors?
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In my opinion, Nigerian scammers are not skilled at impersonating people. I have a long list of reas...
Why is Matt Gaetz being investigated but not Sarah (Tim) McBride? Why do we only care about grooming when it's the Republicans doing it?
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What is there to investigate about Sarah McBride. Was she paying people who are not adults to have s...
What happens when you get sick in a country with universal healthcare? What's the process like?
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It would be different depending on county and of course how sick you are. There are also many variat...
Were there any friendly fire incidents involving American submarines, aircraft carriers, or battleships during World War II or World War I?
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Oh yeah. These kinds of incidents are quite common even in modern war, let alone back then. USS Tan...
I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?
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Yes, this is relatable. I realized somewhat recently that I had been substituting my need for emotio...